These 30 Seconds Can Make Pickleball Speed Dating Fun

Often when we travel to a new club it feels like we are pickleball speed dating.  You get in line and play with someone you have never met.  At the end of that game, back in line.  A few minutes later another new partner.  Perhaps you know them…perhaps not.  They may have similar skills and tendencies as your last partner or may play completely different.

pickleball speed dating
Pickleball Speed Dating Challenges

Pickleball speed dating is fun, but can also be challenging.  We want to make the most of our short time together, have fun and be comfortable.  To me, the key to enjoying the pickleball speed dating experience is to have a 30-second conversation with my partner before the game begins.  Here’s how I approach it.

Pickleball Speed Dating Lefty

I am not left-handed, but if I were the first thing I would do is point this out to my new partner.  When I am playing with a left-handed player I will suggest he or she start on the even (right) side of the court, and we might discuss stacking. If they prefer to stack or want to learn how to stack, that’s fine.

Covering the Middle
pickleball speed datingRegardless, we will always discuss who will cover the middle.  Ideally, this will be the person that can play a forehand.  This allows you to trust the person covering the middle and ensures everyone stays out of each others’ way.  If my partner has the middle, my job is to cover my side of the court.  I need to be ready if the ball comes my way.
Speed Dating Lobs

I’ll also ask about lobs…specifically, would they prefer for one person to cover them.  Often lobs are missed simply because of confusion. If you have mobility issues, let your partner know this before the game.

Call It
I also let my partner know that I will be calling every ball…every time.  “Yours”….”Mine”…”Got it”…”Bounce it”.  I realize that I talk more on the court than many players are accustomed to.  Since I have practiced this for many years, I always do it early, i.e. well before my partner might hit the ball.  Typically, just letting them know this provides the reassurance needed so that we are both comfortable with the process.
Take 30 Seconds
It doesn’t take very long to cover these things on your way to the court or once you have arrived at the baseline.  It really is
just that simple and painless.  By relieving uncertainty you will reduce everyone’s stress level, enabling you to focus and play better.  Remember, comfort is critical to playing well.  You can even be comfortable when you are pickleball speed dating.

 

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